Comments on: Shedding Layers of the False Self http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/ Career Coaching for Professional Women Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:24:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Revealing My True Self :: Carly Goldsmith Coaching http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-108 Revealing My True Self :: Carly Goldsmith Coaching Tue, 17 Aug 2010 19:02:08 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-108 [...] her “Shedding Layers of the False Self” blog post hit me right between the eyes.  Carly challenges us to shed layers of our false selves [...] [...] her “Shedding Layers of the False Self” blog post hit me right between the eyes.  Carly challenges us to shed layers of our false selves [...]

]]> By: Transform Your Job Search blog » Achieving Greater Authenticity - an example http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-67 Transform Your Job Search blog » Achieving Greater Authenticity - an example Sat, 15 May 2010 00:05:04 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-67 [...] There is a lovely story about authenticity on a blog I follow by coach Carly Goldsmith.  Carly shared an experience in which she took a risk, exposed more of her authentic self, and felt all the more powerful because of it. To read her story see her post “Shedding Layers of the False Self .” [...] [...] There is a lovely story about authenticity on a blog I follow by coach Carly Goldsmith.  Carly shared an experience in which she took a risk, exposed more of her authentic self, and felt all the more powerful because of it. To read her story see her post “Shedding Layers of the False Self .” [...]

]]> By: Cathy Keates http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-66 Cathy Keates Thu, 29 Apr 2010 19:06:21 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-66 Carly, My favorite part of your post was this "I saw in her eyes a sense of gratitude that I was willing to be human with her" That really resonates with me. We spend so much time in these false selves that when someone reveals more of themself to us it can be so powerful. And human. I'm always striving for more of these human moments. Thanks for sharing yours. .-= Cathy Keates´s last blog ..<a href="http://careerconsiderations.ca/blog/?p=169" rel="nofollow">Guest post: What We Talk About When We Talk About Personal Branding</a> =-. Carly,

My favorite part of your post was this “I saw in her eyes a sense of gratitude that I was willing to be human with her”

That really resonates with me. We spend so much time in these false selves that when someone reveals more of themself to us it can be so powerful. And human.

I’m always striving for more of these human moments. Thanks for sharing yours.
Cathy Keates´s last blog ..Guest post: What We Talk About When We Talk About Personal Branding My ComLuv Profile

]]> By: Carly http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-65 Carly Fri, 23 Apr 2010 18:23:48 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-65 Hi Phil, I love what you shared about how we "suppress the creative and joyful soul that lurks within us" Beautiful and inspiring!! And thank you for being part of my community of support that helps me find the courage to share my true self to the world! Hi Phil,
I love what you shared about how we “suppress the creative and joyful soul that lurks within us” Beautiful and inspiring!!

And thank you for being part of my community of support that helps me find the courage to share my true self to the world!

]]> By: Philip Bolton http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-64 Philip Bolton Fri, 23 Apr 2010 14:27:11 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-64 Carly - I love that you are always pushing yourself to grow. Thanks for sharing this experience with the world. It is so easy to act out the roles that we think others expect from us - to suppress the creative and joyful soul that lurks within us all. Great inspiration here for everyone to drop the barriers and enjoy life. Phil .-= Philip Bolton´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LessOrdinaryLiving/~3/5jsXf6fZkls/" rel="nofollow">The Five Secrets to Finding Work that Matters</a> =-. Carly -

I love that you are always pushing yourself to grow. Thanks for sharing this experience with the world. It is so easy to act out the roles that we think others expect from us – to suppress the creative and joyful soul that lurks within us all. Great inspiration here for everyone to drop the barriers and enjoy life.

Phil
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]]> By: Carly http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-63 Carly Fri, 23 Apr 2010 11:40:25 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-63 Thank you Kathy! It was an amazing experience, as always, to work with you! Thank you Kathy! It was an amazing experience, as always, to work with you!

]]> By: Kathy Esper http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-62 Kathy Esper Thu, 22 Apr 2010 13:09:44 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-62 Hey Carly, This article is so beautifully written and it's amazing to read about your transformation from this perspective. Of course, those horses are pretty powerful creatures, and as you write about,they really mirrior the power within us that's ready to be tapped into at this very point in time. Thank you for being such an amazing partner on this journey, Carly, it's an honor to work with you and to know you. Kathy Hey Carly,
This article is so beautifully written and it’s amazing to read about your transformation from this perspective. Of course, those horses are pretty powerful creatures, and as you write about,they really mirrior the power within us that’s ready to be tapped into at this very point in time. Thank you for being such an amazing partner on this journey, Carly, it’s an honor to work with you and to know you.

Kathy

]]> By: Carly http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-61 Carly Thu, 22 Apr 2010 00:26:15 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-61 Thank you Julie for sharing your own story. I am coming to find that this will be a life-long process of shedding layers. With each layer shed, my true self is able to emerge more and more and my confidence grows. And its amazing what you can accomplish when all the energy you've been spending on maintaining your false self is freed up! I wish you all the best with your journey and trust your authentic self will find its way to the surface. Thanks again for sharing! Thank you Julie for sharing your own story. I am coming to find that this will be a life-long process of shedding layers. With each layer shed, my true self is able to emerge more and more and my confidence grows. And its amazing what you can accomplish when all the energy you’ve been spending on maintaining your false self is freed up! I wish you all the best with your journey and trust your authentic self will find its way to the surface. Thanks again for sharing!

]]> By: Julie http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-60 Julie Thu, 22 Apr 2010 00:15:35 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-60 Hi Carly, Your post really resonated with me. I'm going through my own process of challenging my false self and uncovering what is true and authentic for myself and my business. I've been spending a great deal of energy on "constructing" a "self" that conforms to what I think others expect of me. Thank you for sharing your experience. - Julie Hi Carly,

Your post really resonated with me. I’m going through my own process of challenging my false self and uncovering what is true and authentic for myself and my business.

I’ve been spending a great deal of energy on “constructing” a “self” that conforms to what I think others expect of me. Thank you for sharing your experience.
- Julie

]]> By: Carly http://carlygoldsmith.com/shedding-layers-of-the-false-self/comment-page-1/#comment-59 Carly Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:08:35 +0000 http://carlygoldsmith.com/?p=289#comment-59 Thank you for the comment Dominique. I love the knowledge and insight you have around spotting the true individuals. Funny how we know them instantly and are attracted to them. For me, this has always been a source of inspiration - if they can do it, so can I, no matter how difficult the journey may be. And I will hold the space for you that all turns out well at work. But my gut is telling me what yours is - if you were true to yourself, all will work out. Thank you for the comment Dominique. I love the knowledge and insight you have around spotting the true individuals. Funny how we know them instantly and are attracted to them. For me, this has always been a source of inspiration – if they can do it, so can I, no matter how difficult the journey may be.

And I will hold the space for you that all turns out well at work. But my gut is telling me what yours is – if you were true to yourself, all will work out.

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