Unexpected Retreat

Today’s post is by Karen Richter of Cohesive Outcomes, LLC

I am once again struck by the relevance of one of Carly’s blog posts.  This time:  Retreats – A Nourishing Investment

Cohesive Outcomes runs outdoor retreats – we spend time focusing on nature, the calmness it instills in our inner beings, which in turn allows us to reconnect with what is truly important to us, etc.  So I obviously know and appreciate the benefits of a retreat.  I’m always up for a retreat!  What I didn’t stop to realize is that we can have little mini-retreats every day, without adding any additional time to our already too-full schedules.

I’ve been an on-again-off-again runner for years.  This spring I’ve become determined to become “on-again” once again. I’ve been enjoying sporadic runs whenever I can fit them in.  This morning was a little hectic at our house – our normal routine a bit rattled up because it was the last day of school after a weekend of graduation parties, etc.  After the morning chaos, I rushed out the door to get in a jog before it got too hot (it is scheduled to be in the 90s again today).  It was not until I drove the 5 miles to one of my favorite running spots (a biking trail through the woods along the lake) that I realized I forgot my Garmin Forerunner (a GPS-enabled sports trainer watch).  I’m not a competitive runner or anything – I’m actually very slow.  But I do enjoy keeping track of my progress – was I able to run the same distance in a shorter amount of time?  Did my average pace quicken?  Can I run the next mile quicker than I ran the last one?  How does this workout compare to last week’s?  How many miles have I run this month?  This spring?  This year?

So – this morning, I had forgotten my trusty tracking device.  Now, it was just me, the woods, and the sunshine sparkling on the water, the birds, squirrels, and the sound of my own breathing.  Instead of finding motivation from the competition against myself using my little running techno toy, I found myself completely relaxing and enjoying the total experience of the run.  I never realized the slight stress that was being added to my run with all the data and analysis.  But now I felt freer to simply run and enjoy.  I was connecting with my gorgeous surroundings, and with myself.  I felt so energized, so alive!  I found myself reflecting back on Carly’s blog post about retreats, and feeling so excited that I was benefitting from a retreat experience – without even planning it!

And when I got back to my car, I was pleasantly surprised to see that I had arrived back earlier than I anticipated! (I can’t help but compete against myself…)  Without my trusty Forerunner telling me, I know I had a great run, with a quicker pace than usual.  And that makes sense.  When we are doing what we love, and focusing on the enjoyment of it, we can truly excel – with little or no effort!

This experience made it clear to me that a retreat doesn’t have to be an added activity – simply tack on some conscious awareness to activities you are already doing.  It can be as easy as leaving technology at home as you go for your morning jog.  Or clearing your head in the shower and getting really present in the moment.  Instead of thinking about all the things you need to get done today, listen to all the sounds around you.  Can you hear the birds outside over the din of the shower?  How does the sound of the water coming out of the faucet differ from the sound of the water hitting the shower curtain and floor?  How does the water feel as it hits your face?  As it runs down your skin?

Or maybe your mini-retreat happens as you walk down your driveway to get the mail.  Take a moment to enjoy the sun on your face (or the rain), the smell of the flowers, the sounds of the cars driving past and the kids laughing in the neighbor’s pool.  Think about all that you have to be thankful for.

It’s amazing the effect a mini-retreat, in just a few minutes, can have on your whole being!

Where are some places you can incorporate a mini-retreat into your day?

Karen S. Richter loves helping others ‘find inner peace in parenthood’.  As the owner of Cohesive Outcomes, LLC (a company dedicated to enriching the lives of parents), Karen finds her own inner peace by getting outdoors to enjoy nature as often as possible, and living in her old (220+ years) farmhouse in Bucks County, PA with her husband, two children, 3 cats, and many chickens.

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